I mean, what am I choosing them for? Because that would definitely change that my answer would be! But I’m guessing that you mean in terms of romantic things, so I’ll just explain my answer in that situation…
La’gann and Superboy are… very different people. I love them both, and I love them differently, but if I had to choose between the two I would ultimately not choose either. That may sound strange, but I feel like that would be the only “right” thing to do.
I guess that the reason I wouldn’t choose either is because, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to realize that I need to be a good person and happy with myself before I’m ready to really extend my commitment in a romantic relationship… It takes a really good sense of self to have a relationship that is mature and healthy. When I was with Conner, we had a really intense, passionate thing going on, but as you can see that ended… Well, it ended. And with La’gann… Well, that’s not what this is about.
If I had to choose, that would mean that I am comparing two people who I love, but as I said, I love differently. And I can’t rate one of those as better or more precious to me— they have both informed my life and are really important connections in my life. So I wouldn’t pick, mostly because I couldn’t.
I know it’s not a real “either/or” answer, but that question really isn’t an “either/or” question for me, you know? I hope you understand! I’m still figuring out all of this stuff, myself. I guess you just have to do your best and follow your heart (as cheesy as that sounds)!
